stages of a break up, mishaps, and mislead

1 have made the 5 stages of a breakup into my own theory.... then you will understand how easy it is to recognize whae happens during the stages.....

alienation- you throw away your friends and then get so bored with each other and begin to fight.... or you can be with your friends and be in withdrawal physically from being away from the person physically that you stop being around your friends so you can always be with the person

fines- this is the part in the break up where your mind and your body pay for what investment your heart put into the relationship.... you start saying i'm just fine to everyone and you really not.... your mind goes off and thinks negative as well as positive thoughts.. this is when you drunk dial because you just drunk and wanna curse them out or, you blunted as hell and you just wanna manifest your own paranoia and magnify whatever you are thinking about..... so you call 'em oh boy you call them up, call them down, call them motherfucker lol..... trust you call too...just to hear their voice even if they telling you go fuck yourself (insert name here)......

maintenece - thats when you want to look real good "just in case they see you they see that you are holding up better than expected...., just because you going to look good regardless, just because you look good....this phase makes or breaks you..... some people wont get dressed and i always suggest to get dressed even iof you feel like shit, look your best..... you dont want to see that person and you not looking right...."rasises hand" i was guilty of that twice and it is not a good thing....

confidence- you feel confident about yourself and just keep it moving.... go back into scenes.... get back into action and just keep it moving... go out with friends, treat yourself to something you like.... take yourself out or go out with friends and have fun, meet people....

take control- its about just letting go and taking a stronger approach into being happy, you can go to another relationship and be happy or you could just be happy by yourself... as long as you are happy it doesnt matter.... when you are happy you take control of youor emotions and your mind....

but then it could be a mishap, a mishap is when you break up for a week or two and what evre you broke up about was a mishap so you go back to the person.... below are rules of engagement....

be aware of yourself- make sure you are aware of what you do and what you say to that person because at then end of the day you dont want to be the one being stuck an amotional wreck....

be aware of them- dont let them consume you thoughts and everyday activities, watch how they move and what they do...

be aware of whats around you- that includes who's around you and where you at.... dont let anyone take you from what you really need to be doing with yoruself....

then again it could be a misleadwhere you mislead yourself to believe that everything is ok but its probably not so you are in a denial the one i would call miselead.....

1. you mislead others into thinking you are ok
2. you mislead yourself to think you are ok
3. you mislead others into believing you
5. others mislead you into believing in them
6. others mislead you into misleading yourself
7.you mislead others to believe in themselves

freestyle-

i'm not going to run around and chase you
got mad niggas that would love to replace you

bitches talk shit behind my back
bitches always going to talk shit, never mind that